I have always struggled with self-doubt. That little voice in my head has been my biggest enemy, whispering that I wasn't good enough, smart enough, or capable of achieving anything great. But that voice didn’t just appear out of nowhere—it was planted. It came from years of hearing people tell me I would never amount to much.
For the longest time, I believed them. I let those words define me. I second-guessed every decision, downplayed my own talents, and stood in the background when I should have been shining. Every time I wanted to take a leap of faith, fear would grab hold of me, and I would shrink back into the shadows. But one day, I realized something—if I kept letting self-doubt control my life, I would never truly live. I would never see my dreams become reality.
Breaking Free from Self-Doubt
Overcoming self-doubt isn’t an overnight process. It’s a journey—one that requires intention, patience, and courage. Here are the steps that helped me silence that inner critic and step into my power:
1. Recognizing Where the Doubt Comes From
I had to sit with myself and ask: Where did this voice come from? Was it a teacher who doubted me? A family member who spoke negativity over my life? The world telling me I wasn’t enough? Once I identified the root, I realized that those voices were never mine to begin with. I had adopted them as my own, but they did not belong to me.
2. Rewriting the Narrative
Instead of replaying the negative words I had heard in my past, I started replacing them with affirmations:
- I am worthy of success.
- I am smart enough, strong enough, and more than capable.
- I am walking in my purpose, and nothing can stop me.
I didn’t always believe these words at first, but the more I spoke them, the more they became my truth.
3. Taking Action Despite Fear
Fear will always be there, but I learned that courage isn’t about being fearless—it’s about moving forward despite the fear. I started stepping out in faith. Whether it was launching my business, speaking on stages, or pitching my brand, I refused to let fear paralyze me. I decided to prove to myself that I could do the things I once thought were impossible.
4. Surrounding Myself with the Right People
The company you keep matters. I had to let go of people who kept me small and surround myself with those who uplifted, challenged, and inspired me. People who saw greatness in me even when I couldn’t see it in myself.
5. Celebrating Every Win—Big or Small
I used to brush off my accomplishments, always thinking I hadn’t done enough. But now, I celebrate everything. Every sale, every opportunity, every step forward—I acknowledge them because they are proof that I am moving in the right direction.
Stepping Into My Power
The moment I stopped waiting for validation and started believing in myself was the moment everything changed. I realized that I have always been enough. The power to succeed, to be great, and to change lives was inside of me all along—I just had to claim it.
And the same goes for you.
If you’ve ever struggled with self-doubt, I want you to know this: you are capable, worthy, and destined for greatness.Do not let the opinions of others or the voice of fear hold you back. The world needs what only you can offer. It’s time to silence the doubt, take up space, and step fully into your power.
I believe in you. Now it’s time for you to believe in you too.
💖 Jeddie Carnes
Founder, GLAAM Cosmetics